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Author Topic: Itchmo - can you stop the bashing by a few people?  (Read 1955 times)
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gracesfurbabies
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« on: May 29, 2007, 03:54:12 PM »

Hi Itchmo,  I don't post very often but I read literally everything on this site!  The information has proven invaluable.

I cannot help noticing that you have 4 members who go to a topic and hammer on others posting there.  They clearly don't have anything to add but feel the need to give their opinion no matter what... 

I'm as thick-skinned as a rhino and don't give a hoot what anyone says to me.  But many (probably most) people are intimidated by this kind of in-your-face communication.   I want to continue seeing people's comments and stories about their experiences and I'm afraid this bully behavior will drive them away!!!

Do you track posts and do you ever ask someone to stop?   I sense that we have people here who have made itchmo just a little to personal and probably need to find some reasonable, physical outlet for their meanness.

Thanks for all that you do.   I LOVE the funny stories and pics on the home page.  They make my morning - every morning.
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« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2007, 04:55:28 PM »

I agree Itchmo. 

"You agree, through your use of this forum, that you will not post any material which is false, defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing....."

It does seem that you have some people who have detracted from the board and they post A LOT.  I guess it is just like real life where you have the people who run others off by being so controlling.  I will dangle my toes in the water here and see what other people say.  Seems that the responses to well intentioned comments of some are becoming just as tainted as the pet food.  Really a shame to see what started as a good place to get information.....and I can still sift through the garbage....but I hate having to dumpster dive on a forum that started out as such a wonderful gift.
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« Reply #2 on: May 29, 2007, 05:38:34 PM »

gracesfurbabies and WagginTail, who are you referring to?
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« Reply #3 on: May 29, 2007, 06:56:33 PM »

I am SO glad this thread was started.  In my opinion there are some posters who have started to monopolize these forums with hearsay, rumors, and mis-information.  It detracts from the valuable information the majority of us hope to get when we come to Itchmo.  Lately it seems that most of the time I'm reading something posted by Chicken Little about the sky falling!  It is very frustrating.  As much as I don't like censorship, I would agree that a little moderation of the forums may be helpful.
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« Reply #4 on: May 29, 2007, 07:53:13 PM »

I would encourage all of you to research topics, articles and rumors and find the truth.

That is why we are here, to find the truth.

Most opinions here come from media releases, the FDA releases, newspapers etc. Some of those are not correct some are. If you don't agree feel free to look things up I do.

I was reminded that something that I had posted was in error and I apologized. But someone had to do research to find it. My opinion was based on a article that I had read, the person writing it didn't do as much research as was needed to find out ALL the facts.

Only by the discussion of ideas, opinions and of course mistakes are we going to find the truth.

If you feel someone is in error then point that out. It is OK to address someone as long as you don't FLAME them. In fact you would do us all a favor by pointing out opinions rather than facts.

If you feel that someone is monopolizing a topic, jump right in and say so. No one here is going to bite you.

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« Reply #5 on: May 29, 2007, 08:42:06 PM »

I have received a few complaints about specific posts, but those seem to have been resolved.  If you have specific people you'd like us to follow up on, then please send me a PM with their names and your specific complaints.  But alas, I do have a day job so I don't have all that much time to go rooting through topics to track someone... I'll bring this up with Itchmo Admin too.   

Unfortunately, the nature of these on-line forums always results in these "e-thugs" who like to exert their power in this medium since it's so easy and has few repurcussions.  As is often the case, it's usually just 5% of the population that cause problems for the other 95%. 
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« Reply #6 on: May 29, 2007, 08:45:24 PM »

In my opinion there are some posters who have started to monopolize these forums with hearsay, rumors, and mis-information.  It detracts from the valuable information the majority of us hope to get when we come to Itchmo.  Lately it seems that most of the time I'm reading something posted by Chicken Little about the sky falling!  It is very frustrating.

That's exactly why I like to play devil's advocate.  Sometimes people get too caught up in something and forget to take a step back and look at the big picture.  While it's hard for me to get a feel for who's being good and who's being bad, I do try to give any complaints/reports the time they deserve so if you feel this is happening on a specific thread, go ahead and report it.
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« Reply #7 on: May 30, 2007, 09:44:53 AM »

The best way to resolve these issues is for the Admin (Filbert) or myself to just ask the people to be more polite. Usually they comply. If they don't, we take more serious measures.

If you see posts like that please send Filbert a private message and we can monitor the situation.
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cheetah-dog
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« Reply #8 on: May 30, 2007, 10:59:17 AM »

I MADE A COMPLAINT TO YOU REGARDING CERTAIN PEOPLE AND THIS IS WHAT CAME BACK:
You have just been sent a personal message by filbert on itchmoforums.com.

IMPORTANT: Remember, this is just a notification. Please do not reply to this email.

The message they sent you was:

It looks like the post you reported has changed.  Is there a more specific complaint you can provide us with?

Reply to this Personal Message here: http://itchmoforums.com/index.php?action=pm;sa=send;f=inbox;pmsg=591;quote;u=677

BUT I WILL NAME NAMES:  STEVE AND STRAYBABY AND THEIR LITTLE "CLIQUE" ON THE KUMPI THREAD.  WHO ARE THEY AND WHAT IS THEIR AGENDA?  Not only that but you have had to try to get them to take their off-topic comments to another thread, but no they are trying to drag Evy Sherpa thru the mud as they know you or itchmo will not remove ANY of their slanderous remarks.

IT IS ALL TOO PATHETIC FOR ME!
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« Reply #9 on: May 30, 2007, 11:02:32 AM »

Sorry, but I haven't seen any slanderous remarks.  It seems to me that by the time I can check them, the authors have changed their remarks...   They may make comments and opinions you disagree with, but that doesn't necessarily make them slanderous.  You reported a specific post that had nothing slanderous when I saw it.   But now that you've given some names I can take a look at what's been posted throughout a thread and make a better judgement.

Regarding Steve, while he has said some racey things, I don't think I would consider anything he has posted to be slanderous or worth deleting, even though i don't agree with some of them.  I have not been following the thread so the more details you can provide in your complaints the better I can make a judgement call.  Simply saying, "THIS FORUM IS DISGUSTING!" does not help me identify the problem.
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« Reply #10 on: May 30, 2007, 11:22:31 AM »

Ok, so there were perhaps some slanderous/libelous (is that a word?) comments, but I need your help.  I don't know what's in Kumpi food, so if you find something that is wrong or is a lie, you need to tell me what the person said and why it is wrong.  Think of it kind of like a mini court hearing, there has to be sufficient evidence in order for me to take action. 
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« Reply #11 on: May 30, 2007, 11:24:19 AM »

I have archived all of the posts that Steve has made.  Looks like he is backtracking and changing his posts now.  How convenient.
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« Reply #12 on: May 30, 2007, 11:25:06 AM »


This post was written while the ones above were being posted and were not showing when my post was written.


Huh

I am completely surprised at this thread. I thought we were all playing well together.

Being intentionally disruptive is one thing but just because someone doesn't like the topic of a thread doesn't mean that others aren't interested in it. ... even if it is about the sky falling.

I would hate for someone else to have noticed the sky falling and not mention it out of fear someone else might not wish to know about it.

Like I said, being intentionaly ?disruptive is one thing. However, ?because not everyone is knowledgeable on all subjects, if something posted is not in your particular way of thinking or comfort level it does not mean it is a rumor or misinformation and needs to be "monitored" out.

That may not be stated as clearly as needed, but I hope the idea is clear enough.

Today the limbs are falling off trees here due to this long lasting rainy spell ....(or maybe the sky is falling) and have broken down my fence and my deck railing too so I cannot let the dogs out to potty. I'm almost out of dogfood and am totally out of cat food for the new MamaCat....the dog food I ordered last week hasn't even been shipped yet...and they couldn't even find my online order for flea control stuff ordered at the same time...form another company online.

So while I hope this post makes sense, I have a bundle of (wet, probably) reasons to explain my slightly ajar mental condition today......and I haven't even mentioned the mud that can be brought inside in this weather with just 28 furry paws.


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gracesfurbabies
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« Reply #13 on: May 30, 2007, 11:36:31 AM »

Filbert,  My post was not to accuse anyone was being slanderous and of doing something that could get them blocked from the forum.   I AM accusing some of these folks of being downright mean-spirited and terribly harsh in their communication.   I realize that posts, emails and the like often lead to misinterpretation of both the meaning and the personality behind it.   That simply isn't the case here.   We have some bullies amongst us who take their stress from the situation out on others who may not be up to speed yet.  

I'm going out on a limb here...... but I guess that these bullies didn't know a damn thing about nutrition when they were fortunate enough to be blessed with their first pet.  Everyone must learn at their own rate, with their own questions and in their own way.  And the bullies need to learn to communicate more effectively or I'll continue to call them bullies.

The majority of people who care enough about furry friends to take the time to come to itchmo have to be good, kind people at heart.  Some of the communication here has taken me by surprise and greatly disappointed me.   I had hoped for a place to compare stories, experiences and pass on knowledge.   There are ways to say "you are mistaken" and then there are "ways".

If someone here needs lessons in communication and what "nice and gentle" means vs. "hateful and bitter" please feel free to email me at 13mews@bellsouth.net     Mail me some of your harsh diatribe and you won't hear back from me because I won't behave like you people.  

What I wanted the itchmo administrators to do was contact these people and ask them to "tone it down a bit" and hide their meanness for a few days.   Let's give the newcomers and the lurkers an opportunity to participate without threat of being verbally executed!

I guess this is now also becoming a thread for harshly accusing one another.... Oh well
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« Reply #14 on: May 30, 2007, 11:41:12 AM »

Gotta jump in here, too, since I have an opinion on this...that will likely get robo-shickens thrown at me.  Although I understand the frustration of bad posters, I would prefer that specific poster's names be left in PMs and messages to Admin., not in a thread dedicated to bashing people with the complaint that THEY are bashing people, but you aren't.   Roll Eyes 

I've been on the internet when the internet was just being "born."   Itchmo is a fairly calm and bash-free place.  If you don't believe it, go to most any newsgroup and start posting and see how quickly a newbie is bashed off the group!

Bottom line, if you don't like a certain poster, don't read their posts...move on.  I agree with dingbat 100% on this.  Solve your own problems, confront -- in a nice way -- people on the threads if you have something to say.  Don't expect Big-Daddy-Itchmo to solve problems for you..that just isn't life, folks.

This is the internet, for heaven's sake!  Not Romper Room or Miss Emily Post's Class in Etiquette!
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